Icebreakers · Heart-to-heart & keepsakes

Rose, Thorn, Bud

The check-in ritual: a highlight, a hard thing, something coming.

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What it feels like

A rose: something lovely from lately. A thorn: something hard. And a bud: something just beginning. It's a simple ritual, and it's how good friends catch up. Take your time.

How to play

  1. One person takes the floor at a time and answers out loud.
  2. Use the 60-second timer if you like. Nobody has to write anything.
  3. Keep any line worth remembering in the Almanac.

Scoring: No scores. Just the room, listening.

You'll get prompts like

  • “Rose — a highlight since we last met”
  • “Thorn — something that was hard”

What you need

3 to 10 people and one phone, tablet or laptop to pass around — or everyone on their own phone in a room. Nothing to download, no accounts. The best lines can be sealed into your group's Almanac and come back in later games.

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